Ep.108/ Growing Pains of Becoming Securely Attached
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We often talk about becoming securely attached as the “goal”—the place where all the chaos, confusion, and heartbreak finally settle. But what no one tells you? Healing doesn’t feel like a finish line… it feels like a reckoning.
In this week’s podcast episode, I’m getting real about the growing pains that come with evolving into your secure self.
🔹 Why dating may feel lonelier before it gets better
🔹 How raising your standards can shrink your options—but protect your peace
🔹 The hard truth about what happens when you start seeing relationships clearly
🔹 And why maturity means walking away, even when you still care
This episode is for the part of you that’s doing the work—but quietly wondering if it’s actually working.
It is. And you’re not alone.
